Tag Archive: Sexuality

Good Vibrations

It was the start of the last semester of my undergraduate education, and the day was passing normally enough. I sat in the back row of a large lecture hall as the room… Continue reading

The Abstinent Man

I kind of fell into it by accident. Abstinence, I mean, or “celibacy” (as I, and others, sometimes jokingly called it). It was abstinence though. I recently learned the difference between those two… Continue reading

How to F**k a Fat Girl

I can’t pinpoint the exact point in my life when I became aware that I was a fat girl. I know that I was young, certainly prepubescent, and this realization has followed me around… Continue reading

Confessions of an Empowered Submissive

“An empowered submissive? You mean, a woman who is sexually empowered by her role as a submissive? A woman who isn’t a passive victim in receiving torture, but takes an active role in… Continue reading

Being a Minister’s Son

I remember about an eternity ago, when Britney Spears was a virgin, and Justin Timberlake hadn’t yet exposed somebody’s boob at the Super Bowl, and they were going out, post-Mickey Mouse Clubhouse. They… Continue reading

I Didn’t Say No

[trigger warning: rape] I do not think of myself as a victim. Nor do I think of myself as a survivor. On the whole, I don’t think of ‘the incident’ (as I call it)… Continue reading

I am Not Broken

[trigger warning: rape] Slut. Skank. Whore. Those were my names for a while. You see, I’ve had many sexual partners. I’ve also had a lot of sex. Sometimes it was great and sometimes… Continue reading

The Zombie Effect

My name’s Alex …and I like sex. Big surprise there. But why does it sound like I’m suddenly at an AA meeting? I live and work in a world where sex seems to… Continue reading

An Obligation to Divulge

I feel as though today, what many idealize in women, as women, is the Carrie Bradshaw.  The Sex in the City woman who is comfortable in her body, comfortable with her sexuality and… Continue reading

Prude.

As I sat in the dark living room of an unfamiliar apartment playing “Kings Cup” with a bunch of kids I did not know, I had to think of a question fast. The… Continue reading